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Selfish 7-year Olds

-In 1966, I remember going to Woolworth's with my mother to buy a birthday present for my brother. My initial attention was focused on the food counter to the left of the entrance. I would do anything to eat one of their hot fudge sundaes. My mother, who was never one to mince words, quickly snapped, "We're not here to eat." She gave me the raised eyebrow. "We're here to get your brother a present."
-I sheepishly agreed, "I know, mom." She gave me a stick of Juicy Fruit gum to chew on instead. They didn't have any decent model kits. We had more board games back home than what they stocked on their shelves. A smile emerged on my face when we came to the Matchbox car display. My mother preempted any discussion and shook her head no. It didn't take long before my mom realized that the toy section had more to offer me than my brother. We seemed to wander aimlessly around the store, making an obvious detour away from the pet section. Eventually, we reached the front of the store. Nothing. As my mother took a second to figure out what to do next, "IT" caught my eye. Prominently displayed in the bookrack was a new paperback adventure of "Batman and Robin."
-"MOM!" I quickly retrieved the gem and offered it up for consideration.
- "I don't know," she replied, "Are you sure your brother will like it?"
-"Come on mom. You know the TV show. It's a hit!" My mother didn't seem too convinced. I proceeded to give her every possible and plausible reassurance. I ended with a final plea, "Come on mom. Trust me, he'll love it." She relented and made the purchase. I took great pride in carrying the bag out to the car. On the way home, my mother gave me a stern look in the rearview mirror, when she caught me leafing through the book like it was mine. I promptly put "the gift" back in the bag. It turned out that my brother hated Batman and Robin. I was selfish and bought something that I liked as opposed to something he could use or enjoy.
-Later that night, my brother flipped the book over to me and said, "You can keep your gift. I'll never read it." He paused. "Maybe I'll return you the favor on your birthday." I started to apologize, but he was in no mood to hear it. In the end, my brother never returned "my favor" and I didn't read the book. In fact, I never touched it again. I felt terrible. It was a hard lesson to learn.
-I share this experience because it is perhaps the best way I can sum up the State Legislature's total selfishness when it comes to the issue of election reform. Their resistance to amend election law has led to inconsistencies in its interpretation and implementation. Many counties have delayed action at the local level until the state makes the changes required to fully comply and implement the federal Help America Vote Act (HAVA). After more than 200 years in the history of our state and country, New Yorkers with disabilities deserve and have a legal right to vote privately and independently. This is not an option. The state must ensure full access to voting machines, the ballot, and polling places.
-The Legislature has offered up a wide variety of "plausible reassurances" in an attempt to convince the public that they are doing us all a "favor." In reality, their actions represent a very selfish act. They are more obsessed with the perpetuation of their own incumbencies and house majorities than the voting needs of citizens.
-I was seven-years old when I made my mistake. What is the State Legislature's excuse?


 

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